The 7 Habits Tree

编辑日期:2014-12-8 作者:王彤 点击次数:

关于习惯的名言大家耳熟能详的有:“孩子成功教育从好习惯培养开始”—巴金和“习惯形成性格,性格决定命运”—约·凯恩斯【美】,为此今天我们也一起看看美国学校针对学生习惯养成所绘制的The 7 Habits Tree(七个习惯树)海报,用一棵大树来形象得比喻孩子一生需要培养的好习惯。从树根开始,从下往上这七个习惯像一棵小树一样逐渐长成参天大树。


proactive 有前瞻性的,先行一步的;积极主动的

第一个习惯:Be proactive - you're in charge 积极主动,我的人生我负责
I am a responsible person. I take initiative. I choose my actions, attitudes and moods. I do not blame others for my wrong actions. I do the right thing without being asked, even when no one is looking.


第二个习惯:Begin with the end in mind - Have a plan 有目标,有计划

I plan ahead and set goals. I do things that have meaning and make a difference. I am an important part of my classroom and contribute to my school's mission and vision. I look ways to be a good citizen.

第三个习惯:Put first things first - Work first, then play 做事分清主次,先工作,后娱乐

I spend my time on things that are most important. This means I say no to things I know I should not do. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan. I am disciplined and organized.

第四个习惯:Think win-win - Everyone can win 从互赢角度考虑问题,利己利人

I balance courage for getting what I want with consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

第五个习惯:Seek first to understand, then to be understood 先去理解别人,再求被人理解

I listen to other people's ideas and feelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others without interrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people the eyes when talking.

第六个习惯:Synergize - Together is better 协同-合作会更好

I value other people's strengths and learn from them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problems because I know that by teaming with others we can create better solutions than anyone of us can alone. I am humble.

第七个习惯:Sharpen the saw-Balance feels best 磨刀不误砍柴工,寻求健康和平衡

I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn in lots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways to help others.